A Valentine’s Day special on relationships:
To Men.. Just say it !!
Be honorable, respectful, brave, and forthright every step of the way.. Whether it’s good or bad. Don’t lie, hide or be evasive, those are signs of weakness, or worse.. Very unbecoming of a man !!
Whether you love her or you’re Not into her.. Still not sure or she means the world to you but circumstances are difficult… Tell Her !!
Being honest and frank isn’t bad, disrespectful or hurtful, as long as it is done considerately.. Quite the opposite, it’s very noble.. Breaking up is many times easier than hanging on to an Illusion..
Don’t hijack her decision, keep her analyzing.. wondering.. waiting.. hoping.. wasting time & emotions on you.. Maybe even getting more attached.. You have no right to do so!! She might surprise you and decide to support you and stay by your side..
Don’t force her to waive her pride and shyness and embarrass herself by having to ask you for answers either..
It’s amazing how these days women are becoming much braver, more outspoken and confident than men (Not all of course) !!
Nada I. Samman - ندى عصام السمّان 