Do Notpraise me if I don’t deserve praise.
Do Nottell me I look good just to flatter me, or hoping that I “return the compliment”.
Do Notlike my photos, posts, or what I write if you don’t really like them or you disagree.
Do Notsend me happy birthday wishes if you do it out of courtesy or duty.
Do Notgift me for any reason other than sincerely wanting to.
Do Not tell me you like me or miss me if you really don’t.
Do Not commend any of my acts if they’re wrong or unjust.
Do Not support me if I stray.
Do Not tell me I’m good when I’m being bad.
One genuine, loving, sincere word is to me worth much more than all the fake likes and compliments. And one genuine, sincere, loving friend is worth a hundred fake ones.
I totally understand being nice to people, wanting to make them feel great and lifting up their spirits. This is honorable and commendable. But when it’s done for special interests, expecting reciprocation, in social hypocrisy, or for fear of upsetting the praised person, it becomes ugly and distasteful.